
Can you be with what is?
Women's Empowerment
This past weekend my husband and I needed to have a crucial conversation with our middle schooler, but due to schedule conflicts, his mood swings and poor timing, this talk kept getting postponed. My anxiety around wanting to have this…

Maybe it’s time … to ask for help
Women's Empowerment
We weren’t meant to do everything for ourselves. We all need support — lots of it.
Assess how you currently navigate challenges. You or your spouse just got laid off from your job. Do you immediately isolate, put on your armor,…

The life I desire (version 2.0)
Self-Care, Women's Empowerment
One morning when my son was in preschool, my cup was feeling really full and in a moment of supreme clarity, I sat down and wrote the following (this is from the beginning of Ch. 2 on self-care in my book Nurturing the Soul of Your Family:…

Let’s Infect the World…with Love
Women's Empowerment
Yesterday, sitting arm to arm with my husband in the sanctuary of our church, I found myself wiping away tears every few minutes. My heart was swollen--it physically ached. At the end of the service while singing Angels We Have Heard on High,…

I Am a Social Activist
Women's Empowerment
This past Sunday my son and I stumbled upon Lady Gaga's new Born This Way initiative, launched recently at Harvard, which focuses on heightening understanding around bullying and promoting a more compassionate society. It spurred a great…

What Really Matters?
Women's Empowerment
Yesterday morning I found myself standing at my open front door staring out at a beautiful oak tree. Bathed in sunlight, I held a cup of lemon ginger tea in one hand and my to-do list in the other.
I was waiting for a friend that I was helping…

Shifting
Women's Empowerment
Friday I got triggered.
One of my team members told me they wouldn’t be available to help me this week as I prepare for several major events.
I translated this into “I’m not supported in the world."
And I immediately felt a strong…

We Need Each Other
Women's Empowerment
Yesterday afternoon my nine year old ran away from home.
He only went 2 blocks. He was barefoot and was carrying a cigar box filled with a Whole Earth Provision gift card, fifteen dollars and a birthday gift certificate from his uncle for…

Ritual
Women's Empowerment My baby sister, now 30, was only 16 when my father died and 19 when my mother died.
Being 14 years her senior, our relationship is a blend of sister/mother/mentor. But that’s changing.
She is having a baby, and I’m over the moon! Yesterday…

What the World Needs Now
Women's Empowerment Even though I come from a large family, growing up, I often felt isolated.
My parents were big seekers. Much of their energy was spent on their personal quest to find or experience God---and they encouraged us to do the same.
Yet, in the…

We’re All Connected
Women's Empowerment“We have flown the air like birds and swum the sea like fishes, but have yet to learn the simple act of walking the earth like brothers.” - Martin Luther King, Jr.
Growing up with my six siblings, the phrase we often heard from my mom as…

Support
Women's EmpowermentThis past week I attended an Ashtanga yoga class with a new teacher (yep, that’s the sweaty, rhythmic style of yoga).
I loved his approach. He was supportive and really encouraged students to ask questions and reach out for help. And, he…