Yesterday, sitting arm to arm with my husband in the sanctuary of our church, I found myself wiping away tears every few minutes. My heart was swollen–it physically ached. At the end of the service while singing Angels We Have Heard on High, I could barely look at the group of young boys and girls gathered at the front of the room without sobbing.
I realized that this was the first time I had allowed myself to truly feel the depth of emotion Friday’s shooting in Newtown, CT had stirred within me.
“Can you imagine how much pain this poor boy must have been in to feel his only course was to act out in this way?” our spiritual director Tim said during our service on Sunday. “The world is not a bad place, but it is sick. And it needs healing.”
While violence like this seems so ugly and unimaginable it leaves most of us paralyzed, feeling helpless and hopeless about how we can help– what I know in every cell of my being is that when one of us chooses love over fear we infect our entire collective “body.” When one of us prays or holds the vision for larger healing–we are all affected (read more from medical pioneer Dr. Larry Dossey’s research on the power of prayer).
So what can we do in these coming days and weeks–besides praying and lighting candles–to soothe our country’s torn heart and to nurture our collective soul? We can remember that we’re more interconnected than we could ever imagine and that when one of us puts loving kindness and compassion at the forefront of our lives, we all benefit.
December Challenge: Want to “do something” to infect the world with more love and compassion and send healing to your brothers and sisters in CT? Get off your butt and see who in your community needs your help. Call your local United Way or ask your friends/co-workers who needs help in your community. Or, just pause and look around you. Take the time and effort to reach out to a friend, colleague or neighbor who is struggling and could use some emotional support (read more). I have been so busy preparing to launch my new book, I had cancelled our annual volunteer trip to serve the homeless Christmas dinner through the wonderful Mobile Loaves & Fishes. But this morning, I changed our RSVP from “too busy, I’m sending a check,” to “we’ll be there with pies in hand and are available all evening.”
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