Most of us weren’t “born” to know how to consciously parent and many of us didn’t have healthy models for how to be in relationship, so getting support on how to do the hardest and most important job in the world is well worth the resource and time investment, in my book.
Although we’ve taken some classes here and there, this one in particular, has been quite enlightening. And, for me, it’s brought up deep feelings of gratitude for the opportunity to be a mother to this sweet, wonderful soul and to be his pupil. (Even when he challenges me to my limit!).
I was inspired this week to write a thank-you letter to my Zen Master. Here it is:
Thank you for choosing me as your mother.
I am deeply grateful for the opportunity to accompany you on your journey on planet earth this go around.
You remind me daily of all the good that exists in each of us, in the world, how interconnected we all are and what really matters.
You’re the most profound teacher I’ve ever had (where did you go to school again?!).
I’ve learned so much in the last seven years about patience, kindness, compassion, openness, trusting, starting over, softening, releasing, letting go, stretching, expanding and slowing down.
And I love to hear you remind me, “Mom, things are better when they’re slow.”
You’ve taught me volumes about forgiveness—towards those closest to me, my parents and especially my self. And about love—its limitlessness, its power and its ability to heal everything–always.
You stop me daily in my tracks with your wise words and insightful perspective and I love it when you quote Byron Katie and ask, “Mom, is this your business, his/her business or God’s business?”
Nature—oh beautiful, healing, serene, awesome nature. Our favorite playground and the environment where I feel most connected to who you are and our innate divinity. Thank you for inspiring me to return to nature time and time again to replenish my well.
I am looking forward to all the lessons you have in store for me in the coming years. And, I appreciate your faith in me as your mother and your willingness to love me, warts and all.
Thank you for being such a source of inspiration for me to give birth to the best that is within me.
With deep gratitude. Love, Renee
P.S. Interested in meeting once a month in a women’s self-renewal circle to enhance your ability to be more present and parent more consciously? Join or become trained to lead a Personal Renewal Group for mothers. Life coaching groups are meeting from Amsterdam to Akron. Nothing has had a more profound impact on my parenting than being in a PRG.
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Photo: My friend Susan Goodman took this picture of Jonah and I in 2003.