
What self-care is NOT
Self-Care
I was lying in bed Sunday morning reading from author Anne Lamott's beautiful little book Small Victories. In one of her stories about parenting, she shares with a little self-deprecation, but mostly tenderness, how she doesn't bake for…

What would your Wise Self say?
Self-Care, Women's Retreats
As I watch my five parentless siblings hit major life milestones — marriages, divorces, new babies, moves, career changes, health challenges— and observe their individual journeys toward emotional health and well-being, it makes me reflect…

10 gifts I’ve uncovered while living in the unknown
Mindfulness
Are you moving through a career, relationship or health crisis or challenge? Are you in transition and asking "What's next?" Do things seem particularly intense for you right now? For many of us it feels as if we’re headed into a brave,…

How well do you know yourself?
Life & Career Coaching
I just launched a new self-renewal group for women called Embracing the Wild Unknown (supporting the journey into the second half of life). I noticed during our introductions that most of the women seemed pretty self-aware. They knew their…

7 women’s wisdom: pearls from Kripalu
Self-Care, Women's Retreats
I’ve been leading retreats for women for 25 years (read why I lead retreats) and every single time I'm amazed by how much I learn and am reminded of by the women who show up in the circle.
This past weekend I was at Kripalu Center for…

Shedding
Women's Empowerment
We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. The old skin has to be shed before the new one can come. Joseph Campbell
I'm doing a lot of shedding right now. Letting things whither…

Do You Live Intentionally?
Mindfulness, Self-CareI believe that one of the most powerful ways to live purposefully and stay connected to what matters most is to live intentionally.
Do you ever wonder how all the day-to-day choices you make, big and small, add up and affect your family, career…

Are you ignoring your emotional self-care?
Self-Care, Women's Empowerment
Last night I attended a small women's circle where we took turns sharing where we are in our lives and where we're headed next. Afterwards, we did a short meditation and then created beautiful 2015 vision boards together, taking time at…

My 4 must-ask questions for 2015
Mindfulness, Self-Care
I love the time before and around New Year's Day. As a coach/speaker/author who has spent almost 30 years studying, writing and teaching in the area of human potential, this window of time--ripe with possibility and potential--always excites…

Don’t be afraid of the dark
Self-Care
While I love celebrating Christmas as a season of light and time of spiritual renewal, often the days before and after this sacred holiday can be a bit dark for me. Between the cold, grey weather, honoring my deceased mother's birthday,…

10 things I tell clients in transition
Life & Career Coaching
In 1999 I combined my 14 years of experience and training in organizational/leadership development, communications strategy, corporate coaching and personal branding and launched my first business—a career coaching and consulting firm…

5 reasons I take retreats
Women's Retreats
"From stillness comes discernment." Renee Trudeau
Stephen Cope, MSW, author and director of Kripalu’s Institute for Extraordinary Living says retreats don’t change our lives as much as they change where we stand in relationship…