
Listening
Self-CareWe just finished a wonderful dinner of New Mexican red chile roasted veggie enchiladas. We were joined by some dear neighbors and before everyone headed home we gathered our four sweet children ages five to nine for a school year blessing (they…

Self-Compassion
Self-CareLast week I had a day where I felt like I was swimming through steel cut oatmeal (as my west Texas therapist friend Donna likes to say).
I was judgmental and finding fault with every person, group, situation, scenario I was bumping up against.
And…

Waiting
SpiritualityIn 1999 I was so ready for a career change I thought I would implode if my new path didn’t reveal itself soon!
I was taking many steps to support the career exploration process--doing informational interviews, journaling and asking the hard…

Allowing
Self-CareLast March my family took a trip to Big Bend National Park. In the middle of our family vacation, after a long day of hiking in the canyon and swimming in the river, we stopped at a quiet, still campground on the banks of the Rio Grande. As…

I Want To Be Free From …
Self-CareLast night we gathered with a small group of friends for a Freedom Fest.
No fireworks, hot dogs or Tchaikovsky.
Instead, we enjoyed a lively international potluck (each person brought a dish from a favorite trip they’ve taken) and we asked…

Soulpod
Self-Care(I'm out on a writing sabbatical through the summer working on a new project. During this time I'm only posting sporadically, when I'm moved to do so.)
Here we are. Again. Together. Sharing lentil soup. Legs tangled, snuggling under the warm…

Unplugged
Work Life BalanceAre you really living your life ... or are you watching your life being lived?
Last night my husband told me he “likes me better the way I am right now.”
I’m at the beginning of an 8-week writing/creativity sabbatical and the ah-has…

A Different Way
MindfulnessIn fall 2008 I was nuts.
Launching my first book, coordinating our global Personal Renewal Group program and running two coaching/consulting businesses was eating my lunch.
I felt like I was in the middle of a tug of war (with each of my businesses…

Is Ms. Balance Out of Balance?
Work Life Balance
My back and shoulders hurt from too much computer time. I’m not sleeping great (too many late nights online). My mind is too busy. I’m more reactive. And, I’m not as present as I’d like to be with my family and friends.
“When are…

Aware … ness
Self-Care It's 7:00 a.m. I’m sitting at my computer replying to some timely emails before I finish helping my son find his shoes and water bottle and get out the door for school.
He walks into my upstairs office and sits down in the office chair opposite…

Oh Yeah…That’s the Life I Desire!
Self-CareToday I felt restless and unsettled. I found myself fixating on things I don’t normally worry about. Throughout the day, I felt like I was being pulled away from my center … from that which matters most.
I realize this is part of being…

A Grateful Heart
Self-CareI was flipping through our family calendar this morning, which is filled with quotes from Pema Chodron, to see what’s scheduled for May. The quote from her book The Places that Scare You, jumped out at me:
“Rejoicing in ordinary things…