Choosing to let go
Mindfulness
One time my husband was headed out of town to attend a national conference. As I was driving him to the airport, he casually mentioned he would be making a key presentation to his colleagues and asked if I had any quick tips. This really…
Things to do when life feels hard
Self-Care
I was visiting with a dear friend this past weekend who shared she’s battling depression. “It comes and it goes. But when it returns, I often freeze and forget what helps me most; all my great self-care practices fly right out the window,”…
9 ways to reclaim our humanness
Self-Care
The other morning my husband and I were milling around in the kitchen making breakfast and lunches and preparing for school and work. We looked up and saw our 13 year-old on his computer. My husband took a peek as he walked behind my son’s…
5 tips for choosing a therapist
Self-Care
Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes. Carl Jung
In the past month I probably received at least ten requests from friends asking for referrals for great therapists.
Whenever these calls come in, I try and get my friends…
Self-care is not self-improvement
Self-Care
I was lying in bed Sunday morning reading from author Anne Lamott's beautiful little book Small Victories. In one of her stories about parenting, she shares with a little self-deprecation, but mostly tenderness, how she doesn't bake for…
7 good reasons to ask for help
Life & Career Coaching, Self-Care
I'm preparing to launch a new nonprofit organization in Austin this week focused on supporting parents of teens; the underlying premise: community is medicine. I have many motivations for starting this initiative, but ultimately I have…
Are you ready to FEEL GOOD?!
Self-Care
A couple weeks ago I came down with a violent 48 hour stomach bug. After my illness, as I slowly regained my strength, I continued to feel "off" for days afterwards. My mood and energy level were low, my joints felt stiff and I had lost…
Everything is perfect
Mindfulness"If you want reality to be different than what it is, you might as well try to teach a cat to bark.” Author/teacher Byron Katie
Saturday morning after yoga I returned home to find my 13 year-old playing video games, the downstairs living…
What is uniquely yours to do?
Self-Care, Women's Retreats
“I don't want to live in the kind of world where we don't look out for each other. Not just the people that are close to us, but anybody who needs a helping hand. I can’t change the way anybody else thinks, or what they choose to do,…
Turning 50
Life Balance
“Now I see that the journey was never meant to lead to some new and improved version of me; that it has always been about coming home to who I already am.” ― Katrina Kenison, Magical Journey: An Apprenticeship in Contentment
I was…
4 questions to help you release & let go of 2015
Life Balance
It’s Saturday night in Austin, it’s raining and cold out and my son is away at a sleep-over. My husband and I are relaxing in front of the fireplace. In front of us: paper strips, a thin, blue marker, a metal pail and a lighter. No, we’re…
4 ways to schedule time for reflection
Self-Care, Women's Retreats
Our outer world is a reflection of our inner world … what are you doing to nurture your inner life?
I relish this time of year: my birthday is Jan. 7th (I’m excited to celebrate my big 5-0!), winter beckons us to nest, hibernate…